Ideas, concerns and expectations

ICE will often appear in the attentive listening stage as cues that need to be picked up rather than clear statements and that this can be even better than direct questions re ICE - easier and more natural.

But doctors have been shown to repeatedly fail to pick up patient’s cues. Why?

This may be due to control issues - we control via direct questions and this limits patient and renders them more passive -we don’t know where patient cues will take us but paradoxically they may be a shortcut to the most important areas.

Note the central importance of accepting and acknowledging the legitimacy of patient’s having views:

Handling the patient’s ideas, concerns and expectations is a three stage process—

Asking how illness is affecting patient’s life is a good way into ICE

Specific phrasing of ideas and concern questions

Ideas

Explain why you are asking and why it is helpful to you (especially to counter the “you’re the doctor” comment)

Concerns

Expectations

Feelings

An area which, at medical school, we were taught to avoid, yet the area that counsellors are taught most how to explore!

We all need to practice phrases which allow the patient to express their feelings: